Men vs. Women and what I did not know

Men and Women love being in relationships... they pursue, they get interested, they learn, they grow or not... they decide "is this worth it?" and either continue or discontinue.. then there are those where they spent every waking hour together but the relationship still sucks... is this new info? nope.. everyone knows this.. but what I didn't realize is .. that.. people don't work because there is this thing called "perfect" person... or that he/she wasn't the ideal.. The reason that some people just work.. is because the guy/ girl are on the same page.. basically the girl has figured out how she functions.. and how he functions.. and in the same way.. so has the guy.. with that in their subconscious.. they act accordingly... girls... we get endorphins.. "our happy hormones" thru our emotions.. thru TALKING.. CUDDLING.. SWEET ROMANTIC GESTURES... sweet words... etc... guys.. they get their high.. from thrills.. from doing manly things.. or whatever they think is "manly" .. because it gives them that edge... who would have know that TALKING .. only gives girls a high meanwhile make the guy decrease in happiness... but still they try.. because they just don't know.. but scientifically.. all this emotional stuff actually stalls their own happiness. solution? Let men be men.. the more you *the woman* let go and allow the freedom.. the more high he will get YOU.. and the more he will want you to feel balanced basically... he will crave you.. and desire you.. so really even tho it feels like you "lost" him.. you are actually WINNING.. so ladies, just sit back and relax.. FOCUS on your life.. and be successful in all aspect of your life.. because your relationship shouldn't get in the way nor should it... make you cray.